Comments on 4 little men and girly twins: life and death

Oh, I am so sorry to hear this! Miscarriage is NEV...

2012-02-06T19:43:44.376-06:00

Oh, I am so sorry to hear this! Miscarriage is NEVER easy! Most don't understand. Just keep praying and mourn the loss. I've had five miscarriages and have been blessed with three amazing babies. My heart will always want more babies, but God has given me what I need most.

I'm sorry. I hope that everyday that goes by ...

2012-01-18T00:02:27.085-06:00

I'm sorry. I hope that everyday that goes by you'll feel more peace and comfort. It's so hard to understand the whys sometimes. I just don't know what people do without God to lean on.
Hugs,
Aleah

I'm so sorry for you and your family's los...

2012-01-11T22:17:35.066-06:00

I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss Brittany. So, so sorry... :(

You are such an inspiration for sharing your story...

2012-01-11T19:29:43.812-06:00

You are such an inspiration for sharing your story. You have a beautiful family and I believe your family will and can expand when the time is right. Maybe with all that has been going on, your body said that it wasn't the right time. Your post brought a tear to my eye. Maybe from the heartache I feel and probably from my own pregnancy hormones. Either way, things will look up. Stay positive and keep taking pictures!

so sorry. {hugs}

2012-01-11T17:09:55.638-06:00

so sorry. {hugs}

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Praying for h...

2012-01-11T04:41:21.484-06:00

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Praying for healing and peace for you and your sweet family today.

Praying for you and your family....so sorry to hea...

2012-01-10T21:13:47.889-06:00

Praying for you and your family....so sorry to hear this sad news....especially having known the pain of losing a baby. These tears are for you sister.....and for every other mama who has lost a little one. I wrote an In Memory Of post last year.....there is a passage of Scripture that my husband and I clung to in Romans. God is good.
http://4littlelovies.blogspot.com/2011/04/rememberingapril-20-2002.htm

Much Love - Lisa (mama to 4 in Indiana)

I am so sorry for your loss. I pray for peace for ...

2012-01-10T19:45:06.673-06:00

I am so sorry for your loss. I pray for peace for your family. Losing a child at any age is hard to say the least. We had an ectopic pregnancy very early in pregnancy, but it was still very difficult to deal with. God brought us through it although there are not many days I don't think about our baby. Only God can bring the peace you need and understanding, lean unto Him.

I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers and hugs co...

2012-01-10T13:24:10.157-06:00

I am so sorry for your loss.

Prayers and hugs coming your way today.

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious lit...

2012-01-10T09:10:36.520-06:00

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious little one.

I've been there, too. The book, Safe in the Arms of God, was a healing balm to us.

Prayers and hugs

Praying for your family..... Rachel and Eliza (twi...

2012-01-09T15:18:25.125-06:00

Praying for your family..... Rachel and Eliza (twins from MI)

I wanted to add..his is the blog post she wrote ri...

2012-01-09T13:26:36.143-06:00

I wanted to add..his is the blog post she wrote right after Joy went Home... http://likemamalikedaughter.blogspot.com/2011/08/bring-rain.html

I am so sorry. And yet I praise Jesus for that li...

2012-01-09T13:24:56.108-06:00

I am so sorry. And yet I praise Jesus for that little baby, that short life, This past summer I was with my daughter when she miscarried her 3rd baby (2nd miscarried, and a thriving toddler). It was born in the bag of water (and a hard, hard, at home birth) and we took the time to look it over ever so closely and be in awe at HIS creation. Within a short time (days) God placed such joy in our hearts that we were blessed with those eight weeks and we learned so much about joy through that time.. and theye named their baby JOY! Praying you find comfort and joy in His loving arms as you walk this hard raod. Love and Prayers, Kerri

I've been reading your blog since you were pre...

2012-01-08T23:07:24.508-06:00

I've been reading your blog since you were pregnant with your girls. My name is Brittany and my husband's name is Paul too. We've lost 4 babies to miscarriage. It's awful. We have had 3 miracle babies (not at once) and are so thankful to be blessed with them. Going through the labor and birth of our loss (I had 3 surgically removed after my body wouldn't expel them on their own.) was the WORST and so so hard. I'll be praying for you as you physically and emotionally recover. Many hugs to you.

I've been reading your blog for years and this...

2012-01-08T18:26:18.222-06:00

I've been reading your blog for years and this is the first time I've commented but I feel "led" so here goes: Losing a baby hurts so badly, allow yourself the tears, the pain, the grief, and time. When I lost my last baby I already had seven healthy children. NOBODY got it, not even my husband. It was just as difficult as it was the first time I found out I was pregnant and was then told I wasn't pregnant or I miscarried. IT HURT just as badly. Yes, you have been blessed in many ways and yes, you will almost certainly have one or more precious children but allow yourself the time and the stages.... and I wish I could hug you and cry with you.

You and your family are beautiful inside and out. You are a talented writer and I enjoy reading your blog. May God continue to bless you.....................

jennifer

I am so very sorry for your loss. You are not alon...

2012-01-07T23:30:06.001-06:00

I am so very sorry for your loss. You are not alone.

I'm so sorry for your loss. God bless you and...

2012-01-07T19:07:48.572-06:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family.

Oh, Brittany. So very, very sorry for the loss of ...

2012-01-06T21:50:18.760-06:00

Oh, Brittany. So very, very sorry for the loss of your sweet baby. It's so very, very sad. Thinking of you and holding you in prayer. That baby will always be a part of you and there will be such rejoicing the day you meet him/her.

oh my dear friend........ my heart breaks for you....

2012-01-06T15:31:10.695-06:00

oh my dear friend........ my heart breaks for you. Truly it does. We suffered similarly last year as I was desperate to have another child too......we almost got there too but it was not meant to be and my heart broke in two despite my blessings around me. I am still sad that for me there really will be no more. I hope you take your time recovering emotionally..... and physically. What an awful time for you. I'm so sorry and sad for you. You are in my thoughts XX

So, so sorry for your loss. I've been through...

2012-01-06T15:10:37.874-06:00

So, so sorry for your loss. I've been through two miscarriages similar to what you've described. After 5 labors they were definitely the worst. I think it's due to the idea of losing rather than a typical labor where we're "gaining" a baby. My friend called them babies born into heaven. I'm sure yours will deepen your life as mine did. It gave me a new appreciation for those children I have and also some empathy for many who have gone through this type of loss. Sure I was always sad for my friends who had a miscarriage but until I walked in those footsteps I could never truly understand. Praying for you and your family. He gives and takes away, blessed be His name.

I am so sorry and sad to hear of the loss of your ...

2012-01-06T14:46:38.041-06:00

I am so sorry and sad to hear of the loss of your baby. I will pray for peace for you and your family as well. Thank you for sharing your story.

Oh no! I am SO SO SO sorry! I have been reading ...

2012-01-06T13:23:08.043-06:00

Oh no! I am SO SO SO sorry! I have been reading your blog since shortly after the girls were born and for some reason I just kept waiting because I was sure that you all would eventually add one more. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through right now. While it won't help much, know that I will be praying for you along with so many more.

I am so, so sorry. The pain is sharp and it fades ...

2012-01-06T10:24:44.493-06:00

I am so, so sorry. The pain is sharp and it fades but never completely goes away. When I had my first miscarriage, I found out at a 12 week ultrasound. My baby had been gone for a couple of weeks, too. And I replayed what I had done. Eaten. Said. Thought. I wondered what moment it was when he or she slipped away, unbeknownst to me. Did I know on some level? Thoughts like this haunted me for a long time.

That was nearly 7 years ago and I still think about it. I've had 3 more children and 3 more miscarriages, not in that order.

My heart goes out to you and your family. I know your kids are hurting, too. That's one thing about having a big family ~ they know exactly what they are missing when mama loses a baby. It's a loss for all. We take comfort in our belief we will meet those brothers/sisters in heaven someday.

I am so sorry. I stopped by to see how the holiday...

2012-01-06T08:44:19.624-06:00

I am so sorry. I stopped by to see how the holidays were for your sweet family. Did not expect this at all. God bless you and comfort you.

I am so very sorry for your loss. Praying for you...

2012-01-05T16:49:37.067-06:00

I am so very sorry for your loss. Praying for you. May God give you comfort.